Responsibilities of the Love Walk
"Walk in
Love"…an often-used cliché. Love is responsible, and if we don't know
how to walk in it, then we act irresponsibly.
Matthew 6:21 "For where your treasure is,
there your heart will be also."
Jesus was speaking about finances here, but we know it can apply to other
areas. Do we treasure what He
treasures? Money means nothing to Him. Gold means nothing…diamonds mean
nothing. People are precious to God. So often we think we are walking in love
(gritting our teeth and saying OK Jesus, I'll love him/her…but if God said
SICK'EM…you'd knock them cross-eyed! We are going to look at some principles
we can walk in to help us REALLY walk in love towards one another!
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1.
We are members that belong to each other. (Romans
12:5)
Although we function
individually, everything we do affects the other members of the Body. (EX: If I stub my big toe at night, my toe doesn't scream…I
do. My face grimaces, I say those Christian cuss words (oh Jesus oh Lord glory
to God!) What I do, and the choices I make spiritually, affect my brothers and
sisters. Too often in the Body of Christ we focus on the Michael Jordan's, and
how they affect the game…but we forget that if the guy who sweeps the sweat
off the floor when someone falls doesn't show up…Michael can break his neck!
2.
Devoted to one another. (Romans 12:10)
The Word tells us to be
devoted to more than God, or our spouses…but also to one another! Our devotion
to our brothers and sisters in Christ are a great barometer to our devotion to
God. (1 John 4:20…If any man says he loves God but hates his
brother, he is a liar…)
DEVOTION: The fact or state of being
ardently dedicated and loyal. (unswerving in allegiance - nothing can cause you
to sway)
3.
Honor each other above ourselves. (Philippians 2:3-4)
Our hearts should always
be quick to honor those to whom honor is due…pride keeps back comments like
"well done" and "good job". We honor God when we honor His
people.
4.
Be in unity with one another. (Romans 15:5-6)
Singleness of purpose…if we
are working to fulfill the same vision we will be in unity. God desires us to be
in unity so that with one heart and mouth we can glorify Him. What brings glory
to Him? When we are walking in love towards one another…THIS IS how we will be
known (for our love to one another).
5.
Accept one another. (Romans 15:7)
JUST AS CHRIST ACCEPTED YOU! How
did Jesus accept you? What did you have to change for Him to love you? How many
of us have taken a back row believer to lunch lately…those not well educated,
or smell well…not for brownie points, but because of your GENUINE LOVE to them. Jesus went to lunch with the worst of the
worst…because He loved them!
6.
Admonish
one another (Colossians
3:16)
(Admonish: to caution or
reprove gently; mild rebuke)
Revelation 3:19 "Those whom I love I rebuke
and discipline."
Proverbs 27:5 Open
rebuke is better than secret love.
If we do not caution a brother or sister in Christ…we are no better than
evil men are. (If I saw you about to step into a big bear trap, and just stood
by…)
7.
Serve one another. (Galatians 5:13)
If there is one way that
you can show your love for someone, it's to serve him or her! (EX: Marilyn
Manson concert) Mark 10:45 - James and John decide they
want to sit on each side of the throne…what higher place could you be! Jesus
lets them know quickly that the Son of Man came
to serve and not be served (imagine Jesus washing your feet). SAY: "If it was good enough for Jesus, it's good enough
for me."
8.
Bear
with one another in love. (Ephesians
4:2) "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one
another in love."
How do you think (you
with kids) put up with them sometimes? (Bouncing off the wall…I wanna cookie,
I wanna cookie…OK!!!) It's love…love is patient, it bears with someone even
if they aren't bearable…even if you do want to choke them or slap them around
and wake them up. It's gonna take some believers YEARS to get cleaned up…are
you willing to wait it out?
9.
Bear
one another's burdens. (Galatians
6:2)
How many of you want to
fulfill the law of Christ? (What is the law of Christ) Bear your brother's
burdens. If you're going through it, so am I. If I'm going through the fire,
you're there with me.
10.
Encourage
one another. (1
Thessalonians 5:11)
Be an encourager! Build
each other up…pray for one another; communicate (give) to one another. (King
James uses "edify"…literally means to be a "house
builder"…are you building up your brothers spiritual house or knocking
holes in the drywall?)
CLOSE:
The only way we can cultivate our love walk is to do what Jesus did…give
Himself completely away while He was here on earth…He poured Himself into
people and loved the unlovable.